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Tuesday, July 14, 2009

What is Love?

Love is a strange thing. It can be the most amazing feeling in the world, or it can really hurt, but in the end love is something most, if not all of us, will face. While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (even yourself).

Steps on how to love:

Say it
. When you say the word "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.
Empathize
. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, try to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are.
Love unconditionally
. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others).
Expect nothing in return
. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love.
Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have.

Tips: "It does not make you a bad person to desire someone else's love, even if they do not love you. However, to truly love someone, you must let them be free. It is selfish to blame them for your feelings."

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